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Monday, June 6, 2011

Dear Jane, from Anna

Dear Jane,
I’ve decided to kill two birds with one stone, and you’re going to help me with this. Please excuse my insistence, but I’m at my wits’ end. You see, my daughter is turning 11 in just a few weeks, but sometimes I think she thinks she’s turning 21. My daughter knows she can come to me about anything, and she does. But she’s now at the stage where she thinks I couldn’t possibly understand her troubles and have never been in her shoes. Whenever she rolls her eyes at me, sighs, or stomps up the stairs, I remember the words my mother said to me shortly after I gave birth: “In a few years, it’ll be payback time, and I’m just going to sit back and laugh.”
So I came up with this brilliant idea to use your novels as parenting tools. The more I ponder your novels, the more I notice all the little nuggets of wisdom. True, many of these are things I learned myself the hard way long before I lost myself in your words and vibrant characters, but I’m hoping that my daughter will listen to me when I say that these things are true because Jane Austen says so. I’m sure she’ll find these conversations entertaining and will run to tell her friends that her mother is a complete nutjob who takes advice from dead people, but that’s beside the point.
From my prattling about how much I love your books, my daughter already knows the great love stories of Wentworth and Anne and Darcy and Elizabeth; when I compare someone to George Wickham, she knows that’s not a good thing; and she thinks Sir Walter Elliot’s obsession with mirrors is downright hilarious. So I’m hoping that when she comes to me with questions or concerns during those tumultuous teenage years, I can give her some worldly advice and hand her one of your novels to illustrate my point.
Sense and Sensibility: You can and will survive a broken heart.
Pride and Prejudice: Don’t settle, don’t make assumptions, and avoid the George Wickhams of the world like the plague.
Mansfield Park: You don’t have to be popular to end up happy, but don’t be a doormat.
Persuasion: Don’t let past hurts blind you to the present. Time will tell if it’s meant to be.
Northanger Abbey: Dare to dream, but remember that life can’t always be like a novel.
Emma: Don’t meddle, and remember we can all use constructive criticism now and again.

I think these are important things to learn, and while she doesn’t need your novels to understand them and apply them to her life, my ulterior motive is that I truly want her to come to love your novels as much as I do. I hope that she will fall in love with Wentworth and Darcy like I did and aspire to be as strong and courageous as Elizabeth Bennet. I hope she will see you as someone who was every bit as intelligent, witty, and brave as her heroines. But most of all, I hope she will learn that as long as your writings are at her fingertips, many hours of enjoyment lie ahead.

Respectfully yours,

Anna is the author of the blog Diary of an Eccentric, in which she reviews lots and lots of Jane-related goodness.  She also contributed a post about her favorite Austen variations, which you can check out here.

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  1. This was a great post Anna. I have 2 daughters, ages 19 & 13. They have each read one of Jane's novels. But they are willing to watch and re-watch the movies with me. I always remind them that the books are better. I hope as they grow older they will have read all her novels. But, hey I didn't discover Jane until I was much older than they are now. Good luck with your "pre-teen." Between you and Jane she can't go wrong.

  2. Misty: Thanks for having me as a guest!

    @phastings: Thanks! The books are better than the movies, but hopefully their enjoyment of the movies will convince them they have to read all the novels! :)

  3. My daughter already has tried to read Emma, but the language is still a bit difficult for her. She'll get there soon enough, I'm sure. :)

  4. What a wonderful idea...Austen as a teaching tool for young girls. Great idea...and guest post. I wonder what Jane would say!

  5. @Serena: Thanks! I hope Jane would agree, or at least find me amusing. :)

  6. Lovely letter :) And I especially liked that the novels thought you

  7. What a great letter, Anna! I will have to remember these lessons and pass them down to my daughter in about 10 years! Like you, I hope she will be inspired by Jane and learn to find hours of enjoyment in her novels! :)

  8. @Blodeuedd: Thanks!

    @Jakki L.: Thanks! I hope you're daughter loves them, too.


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